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nemomeimpune-lacessit:

The Nu Project’s Nude Photos Tell The Truth About Women’s Bodies

The Nu Project is a no-glamor honest look at beauty and image in our world.

Female nudity isn’t hard to come by in the media, but the bodies we see usually represent a fairly limited scope of sizes and shapes. The Nu Project, a collection of nude photographs shot by Minneapolis photographer Matt Blum, seeks to add some variety to the mix. Blum started The Nu Project in 2005 but said it really took off when his wife, Katy Kessler, became the project’s editor. Blum sees the photos as filling a void. “When I started shooting nudes there was no project like it,” he told The Huffington Post in an email. The things that I had seen either used models with typical model bodies or average people who were made to look extremely unimpressive. I figured there was a way to treat women (of any size/shape) like models and photograph them beautifully, respectfully without a lot of sexual under or overtones. The women photographed are all volunteers, and most of the pictures are taken in the subjects’ homes — where they feel most comfortable. The Nu Project’s website showcases six galleries of nudes, three shot in North America, three in South America. Although Blum told HuffPost that he feels that they have a “good variety of people involved,” he and Kessler acknowledge on The Nu Project website that they’d love for the subjects to be more diverse. “The hardest part for us is that the project is 100 percent volunteer, so I do not see the women until I show up at their door,” Blum writes on the website. “We’re doing our best to encourage all types of women, but we need volunteers of all backgrounds and walks of life to make the project more complete.” Blum said he ultimately hopes that these images inspire the women who see them to feel better about their own bodies. “It’s been really exciting to hear people react to the images,” he told HuffPost. “We get a lot of feedback from women (especially) who have struggled to see themselves as beautiful, and this project has helped them on that path.”

http://thenuproject.com/

(Reblogged from fuckyeahfeminists)
Don’t confuse my desire for a clean house as a desire to clean up after you.

Don’t confuse my desire for a clean house as a desire to clean up after you.

“Nothing seems to crush the masculine petals more than a bit of feminist rain -  a few drops are perceived as a downpour.”

—Susan Faludi

“I want every little girl who’s told she’s bossy, to be told instead she has leadership skills.”

-Sheryl Sandberg

think-progress:

The women’s magazine we really need vs. the one we get. 

(Reblogged from subkultured)

My Experience with Silent Racism…

Background: I volunteered for Habitat for Humanity today on a “Women Build” site.  There was another house being built by all men right next door.  People who have houses built for them must volunteer to do ANYTHING (not necessarily building) if they are going to get a Habitat House.  The two volunteer groups took a lunch break together and shockingly I was the only person of color in the group…. and here’s the silent racism that follows around people of color:

HIM:  So, do you like your new house?

ME: What?

HIM: Is that your house? 

ME: No.

HIM: Oh, which house is yours?

ME: None of them.  I’m a volunteer like everyone else.

HIM: Ohhhh

The assumption being that, of course, since I’m a person of color, I must be the one getting the house.  I wonder if any white women or white men who volunteer at this site have EVER gotten that question.  I have a effing PhD and the assumption is that this house is being built for me.  Why?  Because I’m a person of color.

According to this BMI chart… I am too short.

According to this BMI chart… I am too short.

Picture of a man and woman talking:
“I see, so if I don’t have sex with you I’m a prude bitch.  If I use the pill I’m a slut.  If I get pregnant, I’m an idiot and if I choose abortion, I’m Satan.  Yay.
(Isn’t controlling women’s sexuality so much fun!)

Picture of a man and woman talking:

“I see, so if I don’t have sex with you I’m a prude bitch.  If I use the pill I’m a slut.  If I get pregnant, I’m an idiot and if I choose abortion, I’m Satan.  Yay.

(Isn’t controlling women’s sexuality so much fun!)

Short List of Male Celebrities that beat and/or rape women.

scifigamingmom:

  • Charlie Sheen
  • Sean Connery
  • Gary Oldman
  • David Hasselhoff
  • Mel Gibson
  • Michael Fassbender
  • Nicholas Cage
  • Gary Busey
  • Bill Murray
  • Eminem
  • Alec Baldwin
  • Phil Hartman
  • Tommy Lee
  • Josh Brolin
  • Sean Penn
  • Woody Allen
  • Roman Polanski
  • Axl Rose
  • Sonny Bono
  • John Lennon
  • Sean Bean
  • Elvis Presley
  • Kelsey Grammar
  • Rob Lowe
  • Chris Brown

Who Tumblr/Internet/Society cares about when they beat/rape women:

  • Chris Brown
(Reblogged from docksandmarinas)

GOP Rape Crisis Hotline:

Was it a “legitimate” rape or a “gift-from-God” rape?

(Source: abaldwin360)

(Reblogged from ulli13)

With just enough exceptions to prove the rule, men have taken almost no responsibility for patriarchy. Some men confuse taking responsibility with being sensitive to women, offering emotional support, or tolerating women’s anger and frustration. Men can be sensitive, however, without doing anything to challenge or undermine male privilege or to define gender issues as men’s issues, especially to other men. Even sensitive men can be drawn to the path of least resistance that defines problems such as housework, workplace discrimination, sexual harassment, and violence as women’s issues. This makes it easy for men to see themselves as “good guys”-loving helpers, loyal supporters, or valiant defenders who help women in a patient and caring way.


What such men often don’t do is the work of taking the initiative to decide what needs to be said, asked, listened to, discussed, fought over, attended to, and cared for in order to overcome the status quo’s foot-dragging inertia. When women get tired or confused or distracted by the everyday details of their lives, the responsibility these men take often lies dormant until the next time a woman feels compelled to risk making trouble by raising a “women’s issue.” And when women express anger at always having to carry the burden of figuring out patriarchy and doing something about it, these sensitive and supportive men may react as if they’re being unfairly criticized or even attacked, their exceptional and seemingly generous efforts unappreciated, their supposed immunity from reproach unfairly snatched away.

Allan G. Johnson in the Gender Knot

(YES!  EXACTLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!)  My favorite words - “take the initiative”

(Source: wretchedoftheearth)

(Reblogged from sociolab)
sparkamovement:

What if GQ’s Man of the Year was photographed like their Woman of the Year?

sparkamovement:

What if GQ’s Man of the Year was photographed like their Woman of the Year?

(Reblogged from sassysavvyfilm)